This year marks the 30th anniversary of one of our church’s ministries for men: the Monday Morning Men’s Group. What began in 1996 as a small gathering of men seeking fellowship, reflection, and spiritual growth has become a lasting tradition that continues to enrich the lives of participants today.

The original announcement in 1996 described the vision this way:
“Eight men have signed up to start a men’s study/reflection group. We plan to explore issues in life as they relate to our day-to-day lives of faith. We will explore issues around vocation, family, spirituality, and simply getting through life with some semblance of joy and calm and understanding.”
Originally known as TGIMM (Thank God It’s Monday Morning), the group held its first meeting on September 16, 1996, with nine men in attendance at Penny University. Members took turns leading a brief meditation each week, drawing inspiration from devotional readings, personal experiences, and current events. From the beginning, the goal was simple: provide a place where men could openly explore faith and life’s challenges while building meaningful friendships.
Three decades later, that mission remains very much alive. The group has continued to meet every Monday at 7 AM, through changing seasons of life and changing locations. Over the years, participants have gathered at St. Ives, Dunkin’ Donuts, the memorable “Coffee Shop of Horrors,” Inman Perk, IHOP, and most recently, Panera. During the COVID-19 pandemic, the group adapted by meeting via Zoom, ensuring that fellowship and support could continue even during a time of isolation.
While the early years featured a more structured format centered on specific topics and reflections, the group has gradually evolved. Today, Monday mornings focus primarily on fellowship, mutual encouragement, and the sharing of life’s joys and challenges. It has become a dependable weekly touchpoint, a place to begin the week grounded in friendship, faith, and grace.
The Monday Morning Men’s Group has also inspired the growth of other opportunities for connection and discussion.
One of these is T3 (“Thirsty Third Tuesday”), which meets from 7 to 8:30 PM at Cork It on the Square. Influenced by the broader “Pub Theology” movement, T3 invites participants to engage in focused conversations on theological, spiritual, and contemporary issues in an informal setting.
Additional opportunities for fellowship include the crew which gathers on Tuesday mornings to prepare lunch for Good News at Noon, combining service and camaraderie. The Men’s Book Club continues to bring together readers for thoughtful discussion, while the Wisdom Cluster meets for breakfast or lunch on Fridays at various locations to discuss current events. Those interested in the Wisdom Cluster can contact Jeff Carstens for more information.
Fellowship extends beyond conversation as well. During the past five years, the men’s ministry has sponsored a variety of social events. These gatherings have strengthened relationships, welcomed newcomers, and provided opportunities for fun and community. As always, new ideas and suggestions for future events are welcome.
Thirty years after that first gathering in 1996, the Monday Morning Men’s Group remains a testament to the power of simple fellowship. It’s success is not measured by attendance figures or meeting locations. Rather, it is found in the friendships formed, the support offered during difficult times, the shared laughter, and the faithful commitment of men who continue to show up for one another week after week. New faces are always welcome, and the coffee is usually hot. More importantly, the conversation, encouragement, and community continue to be just as meaningful as they were on that first Monday morning three decades ago.